Why did Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally split? 'The Valley' stars announce divorce after six years of marriage

'The Valley' Season 1 couple Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally exchanged vows in 2018
UPDATED MAR 16, 2024
'The Valley' stars Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally share a daughter (Instagram/@jesselally)
'The Valley' stars Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally share a daughter (Instagram/@jesselally)

BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA: 'The Valley' Season 1 is to premiere and two couples from the Bravo show have already separated.

Jesse Lally and Michelle Saniei Lally split after around six years of their marriage. The former couple's split reports came soon after their friends and co-stars, Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright, announced their separation.

Jesse and Michelle cited 'marital issues' as the reason for their breakup but did not disclose the specific cause.

The Bravo show couple notably arrived separately at 'The Valley' premiere red carpet event at Jax's Studio City bar on March 14. It appears that Jesse and Michelle's marriage encountered turmoil, particularly during the pandemic, coinciding with the arrival of their first child.

In an interview with US Weekly, Jesse shared his marriage struggles and noted, "It was very hard to have your first kid during the pandemic... mid-lockdown, no nannies, no grandparents helping out."

The Bravo star added, "It takes a toll on a couple in that situation." Meanwhile, Michelle claimed that 'The Valley' was filmed a while ago and they could specify some of their marital issues after watching the show.

Michelle shared with the outlet, "People said, "When you watch the show, you’re going to realize how you guys actually are because when you’re in it, you don't actually know." She added, "Taking a step back and looking at myself, I'm like, 'Oh, wow. It's obvious we have some marital issues.'"

Jesse Lally and Michelle Saniei Lally (Instagram/@jesselally)
Jesse Lally and Michelle Saniei Lally (Instagram/@jesselally)

Jesse Lally claims 'The Valley' Season 1 features his marriage struggles

'The Valley' Season 1 star Jesse Lally claimed that the upcoming Bravo show would feature his fractured relationship with Michelle Saniei Lally. The ex-couple's marriage was already teased in the Bravo show teaser released before their split was formally announced. Jesse teased, "There’s a major storyline about our life where I try to work on myself throughout the entire summer to be the best version of myself."

He added, "And if the best version of myself aligned with the best version of herself, then our marriage would make it." The real estate professional further noted, "People evolve. If your marriage and relationship doesn’t evolve with it, it will never work, no matter how bad you want it." In 'The Valley' Season 1 trailer, Michelle appeared to be unsure if she wanted the marriage to continue. The couple had a heated confrontation after Kristen Doute revealed to Michelle, "Your husband said on-camera that he’s going to divorce you."

'The Valley' Season 1 features Jesse and Michelle Lally's marriage struggles (Instagram/@jesselally)
'The Valley' Season 1 features Jesse and Michelle Lally's marriage struggles (Instagram/@jesselally)

'The Valley' star Jax Taylor reflects on Jesse and Michelle's split

'The Valley' star Jax Taylor supported Jesse Lally and Michelle Saniei Lally in their divorce decision and claimed, "Marriage is not easy." In a recent interview, Jax found Jesse and Michelle's split 'interesting' to hear as the Bravo show star has also been struggling with a similar experience.

Jax said, "Everybody handles this kind of situation differently." He elaborated, "In fact, you know, [it's] not just Jesse. I have about a dozen people going through this right now." He added, "Marriage is not easy," the Bravo star adds. "It's a lot of work. There's a lot of ups and downs."

Jax Taylor had previously shared a friendly relationship with Tom Sandoval (Instagram/@mrjaxtaylor)
'The Valley' star Jax Taylor reflects on Jesse and Michelle's split (Instagram/@mrjaxtaylor)

When did Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally get married?

'The Valley' star Jesse Lally and Michelle Saniei Lally have been together for over seven years. The Bravo show couple got engaged in November 2017 at the Ritz in Paris, France with the Eiffel Tower in the background after several years of dating. The couple later exchanged vows at Beaulieu Garden in Rutherford, California on October 12, 2018.

Michelle and Jesse welcomed their first child, a daughter named Isabella Bunny, during the pandemic and lockdown in April 2020. The couple recently celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary and organized a Peppa Pig-themed birthday party for their daughter's third birthday.

Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally (Instagram/@michelle.saniei)
Michelle Saniei and Jesse Lally share a daughter (Instagram/@michelle.saniei)

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