'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After' Season 7: Fans slam Kim for wanting Usman's second wife to 'simply be baby factory'

Fans call out Kim for throwing a milkshake at Usman after he attempts to convince her to let him have a second wife

'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After' Season 7: Fans slam Kim for wanting Usman's second wife to 'simply be baby factory'
Kim and Usman in '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After' Season 7 (TLC)
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NIGERIA, WEST AFRICA: Usman Umar, aka Sojaboy from '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After,' has offended his fiancée Kimberly Menzies by admitting why he wants not just a second wife, but four more. Fans are now criticizing Kim for ignoring Usman's requests and expecting him to treat his would-be second wife as 'trash.'

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Usman, a promising Nigerian artist, initially appeared in Season 4 of '90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' with American lady Lisa "Babygirl" Hamme, whom he married on the show. Usman and Lisa split soon after, but he earned celebrity as a result of TLC. Usman attracting female attention was always a source of concern for his ex-wife, and it also led to his girlfriend Zara ending the relationship with him. Usman was talking to 50-year-old Kim while dating Zara.

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When Zara declined to appear in '90 Day Fiancé,' Usman invited Kim, who leaped at the chance to make him her lover. Usman dated Kim for a whole season before they appeared on '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?' Season 7 as a legitimate couple. Now, Kim wants to propose to Usman in Nigeria, but they can only be married when Usman's family approves. Usman intends to go to America with Kim on a K-1 visa before marrying her there. However, Kim's family, which includes her mother Sally and her son, '90 Day Fiancé' fan favorite Jamal, does not accept her relationship with Usman, believing that having a different wife after Kim will solve their problems.

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Furthermore, on '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?' on September 18, Kim is in an unusual situation after Usman informs her that he would want not just a second wife, but also a third, fourth, and fifth. Kim learns that Usman's buddy KB has two wives and nine children. Usman informs a stunned Kim that he, too, has the "potential" to produce nine children. In reality, Usman does not want to waste time and would like to have "two more wives" to accomplish his dream. "No, there's no way … I can barely deal with one," Kim admits, adding, "I don't give a damn."

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Kim, Usman, and his friend, KB in '90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' Season 7 (TLC)
Kim, Usman, and his friend, KB in '90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' Season 7 (TLC)

'90 Day Fiancé' star Usman attempts to persuade Kim by telling her his calculations. "If I have four wives plus you — like, I have three more," he says. Usman believes that if one of his wives has twins and the second has one or two, he may have ten children in two or three years and be "done." Kim believes this is the "dumbest thing" she's ever heard since, up until now, she's been fine with Usman having only one more wife to make him a father. "Now we are talking about three or four, no," she says. Usman then proposes bringing his second wife's children to live with him and Kim in the United States. When she hears this, '90 Day Fiancé' star Kim gets enraged and begins cursing Usman, which she describes as "unacceptable to any Nigerian man." Usman has begun to wonder if she was ever alright with his marrying again as a result of Kim's actions. Usman feels Kim is just willing to make him happy when she will be unable to take it. This is demonstrated by Kim getting enraged and throwing a milkshake at Usman before abruptly quitting the discussion with him and his friend halfway through.

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Fans of '90 Day Fiancé' are still unsure how genuine Kim and Usman's love is. The way Kim reacted when Usman mentioned of him treating his future wives the same way, fans feel: "Kim is fine with another woman being treated as trash?? That's not ok , Kim. #90DayFiance." Some fans also feel Kim only accepted the 'second wife' condition just so Usman could fulfil his wish of having babies: "Kim expects the 2nd wife, a human being, to simply be a baby factory that gets no love or respect. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA." Another fan wrote how Kim wants to be treated as compared to Usman's would be future wives: "Kim thinks Usman marrying her first makes her the Queen Bee, but it just makes her fool#1. #90dayfiance #90dayfiancehappilyeverafter." Calling Kim 'too ignorant' one fan tweeted: "Its Kim trying to justify and explain why she had to throw a milkshake like a child having a tantrum that blows my mind. She's too ignorant to realize she was wrong SMFH #90dayfiance."

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Some fans also feel Kim is not cut for Usman's culture as they write: "Usman knows women in his culture are raised to be submissive and that’s what he wants but he’ll never get that from Kimberly #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." A fan also wrote how Kim wouldn't react that way with a white man: "Kim and Angela would never talk to White Men like this. Not even a Black American man. They went looking in Africa to let their racist side be free, flowing, and real high in the air. #90DayFiance #happilyeverafter #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA." Calling her immature and spoiled, another fan tweeted: "How would Kim feel if Usman threw something in her face every time she said something he didn't like. Kim this is entitled, spoiled, ugly, immature behavior. Stop that shit. Unacceptable. You would have him arrested if he did it to you. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Kim explaining why she doesn't want Usman to have more than two wives, also got fans thinking: "So Kim is saying she is okay with Usman only sleeping with the second wife #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFiance."

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Calling Kim and Usman's fight to be a 'simple culture clash,' a fan wrote: "Kim and Usman have a simple culture clash. She's acting like an American, and she doesn't realize the wife of an Islamic is expected to be submissive. #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Fans are also mad at Kim for willing to learn about his culture: "Kim is old enough to do her own research on Nigerian culture #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter."

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'90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?' airs on TLC on Sundays at 8 pm ET.

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