Did Lisa Hochstein hit her ex-husband Lenny? 'RHOM' star makes startling revelation amid defamation lawsuit

'RHOM' ex-couple Lenny and Lisa Hochstein have accused each other of physical abuse
'RHOM' star Lenny and his ex-wife Lisa Hochstein's divorce is yet to be finalized (Instagram/@lennyhochstein and @lisahochstein)
'RHOM' star Lenny and his ex-wife Lisa Hochstein's divorce is yet to be finalized (Instagram/@lennyhochstein and @lisahochstein)

MIAMI, FLORIDA: The split between 'Real Housewives of Miami' ex-couple Lisa and Lenny Hochstein has escalated into a messy affair with a recent revelation emerging in their defamation case. Lisa's estranged husband has come forward with allegations that his ex-wife "consistently hit" him throughout their marriage.

According to the latest court documents obtained by US Weekly, Lisa had been physically abusing Lanny. The document stated, "There are too many times over the course of the marriage to list each instance of physical abuse by [Lisa] against [Lenny]... However, to be clear, at no point in time did [Lenny] ever strike or hit back at [Lisa] or push or initiate any physical harm to [Lisa] in any way."

Lenny further shared with the outlet, "That’s the reality of it. I never hit her and she hit me countless times. Everything that she has accused me of is typically her behavior not mine." Bravo star filed a defamation case against his estranged wife Lisa after she accused him of domestic violence. However, Lenny denied the accusation and claimed the Bravo star had "lie[d] when she alleged last month that he had abused her."

Lisa then took to her Instagram Story and showed a bruise on her arm. In the post, she claimed, "Didn’t want to have to share this. But I’m left with no choice. I'm being threatened and harassed through the court system and through 'others' by Lenny and it needs to stop." Despite Lisa's claims, Lenny maintained his previous stance and once again denied allegations of hitting his estranged wife.

'RHOM' stars Lisa and Lenny Hochstein filed for divorce in 2022 (Instagram/lennyhochstein)
'RHOM' stars Lenny Hochstein accused his ex-wife of physical abuse (Instagram/@lennyhochstein)

Why did Lisa and Lenny Hochstein split?

Lisa and Lenny Hochstein began dating in 2007. Within two months, the 'RHOM' star relocated to Miami to live with her partner. Lenny proposed to Lisa just six months after they started living together. The couple tied the knot in 2009 and later welcomed two children, one in 2015 and another in 2019, both born via surrogate.

Lisa and Lenny's romance hit a breaking point in May 2022 when they announced their breakup, subsequently filing for divorce. Since then, the ex-couple has been embroiled in a tumultuous legal battle, making allegations, including accusations of physical abuse against each other.

'RHOM' Season 6 Episode 8 shows Lenny Hochstein filing a legal motion against ex Lisa (Instagram/@lennyhochstein)
Lisa and Lenny Hochstein parted ways in 2022 (Instagram/@lennyhochstein)

Lisa Hochstein claims she has spent 'thousand' on her messy divorce with Lenny

'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein recently expressed her frustration over the prolonged and costly nature of her divorce from Lenny In a recent interview with Page Six, Lisa shared, "It truly saddens me that Lenny has caused me to have to spend tens of thousands of dollars in attorney's fees that should have been conserved for our children."

The Bravos show star added, "I don't understand. He's engaged. Doesn't he want to get divorced?" Meanwhile, during the 'RHOM' Season 6 Reunion part two, Lisa admitted that she was confused by what was taking them so long to get divorced. She questioned Lenny's motive and noted, "He's suing me for forks and knives and pillows and art, art that is mine, by the way. He just has it out for me."

Lisa Hochstein has a net worth of $90 million (Instagram/@lisahochstein)
'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein claims she has spent 'thousands' on her messy divorce with Lenny (Instagram/@lisahochstein)

Who is 'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein currently dating?

'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein is currently in a relationship with Jody Glidden. She has been enjoying a whirlwind romance with Jody after they first started dating in February 2023. The couple has since been sharing numerous cozy photos and videos together on social media.

Liza and Jody currently exploring the streets of Paris and shared a sweet photo with the Eiffel Tower in the background. However, Lenny Hochstein has also moved on and got engaged with his girlfriend Katherine Mazepa in July 2023.

'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein is currently dating Jody Glidden (Instagram/@lisahochstein)
'RHOM' star Lisa Hochstein is currently dating Jody Glidden (Instagram/@lisahochstein)

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