Are Jessi and Jordan Ngatikaura together? Inside 'TSLOMW' couple's relationship after their rough patch
'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' doesn't shy away from portraying intense on-screen drama. From cast members often being at odds with each other to the internal relationships between the moms and their partners, the reality television show almost always has a lot of tea to spill.
While Season 4 of 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' recently dropped all 10 of its episodes on Hulu and Disney+, fans are curious about the relationship shared between cast member Jessi Ngatikaura and her husband Jordan.
Both Jessi and Jordan have been together since the show's 2024 debut, and the highs and lows of their marriage have played out across the show's subsequent seasons. On the surface, things seem rather normal.
Jessi recently posted a reel on her Instagram page that chronicled her bedtime routine, including tucking their children in at night and cosying up to Jordan to watch the television show One Tree Hill together. It is widely known that Jessi was previously involved in an emotional affair with 'Vanderpump Villa' star Marciano Brunette while going through a rough patch in her marriage with Jordan.
The couple shares their children, Jagger and Jovi, and has also admitted that both of them 'made mistakes for sure.' In a November 2025 interview with People Magazine, Jessi had revealed that she shared a "toxic dynamic" with Jordan, further explaining, "I think having it come out publicly was a good wake-up call for us because it got us help."
Jordan, on the other hand, shared, "I take full accountability for the pain I caused Jessi during our marriage. At that time in my life, I was deeply unhealed, and as the saying goes, hurt people hurt people. That doesn’t excuse my behavior (sic) in any way; it’s something I’ve had to face and take full responsibility for. My focus now is on continued healing, being the best father and husband I can be, and making sure that the patterns of my past never repeat. I have deep remorse for the hurt I caused and so much respect for Jessi’s strength in continuing to fight for our marriage and family."
Thereafter, it seems that Jessi and Jordan have overcome their mutual differences and are working through them amicably to ensure that their love never fades.
This was evident from Jessie's statement in November 2025 with E! News, "We're trying to work on it. Relationships are not perfect. I think a situation like ours is going to take time. It's not going to something that's just amazing overnight." She further added, "We're in therapy. We have our ups and downs, but we're just showcasing our story, hoping it can help others and that they can relate to it 'cause it's real."
