'Goal is to reduce impact': 'The Bachelor' star Charity Lawson talks about 'healing' after abusive past confession
COLUMBUS, GEORGIA: 'The Bachelor' Season 27 contestant Charity Lawson opened up about 'infidelity' on the show. It seems that the star has not yet recovered from the trauma her ex gave her in the past. On Thursday, March 9, Charity took to Instagram to talk about healing.
The Georgia beauty talked about what her goals are in her post. It seems that 'The Bachelor' star is looking out to reduce the impact that her past life created on her. Prior to being on ABC's reality show, Charity was allegedly in an abusive relationship. Charity's partner allegedly cheated on her with someone she knew. The relationship became a "vicious cycle of manipulation" for the star. Because of the same, she never got to know how honesty felt in a relationship. Keep reading to know what 'The Bachelor' star is trying to convey through her social media posts.
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'You can't heal yourself out of being human'
Charity, 27, took to her Instagram story to talk about how she has been healing from her past. The star shared a post on a page named "I Got Therapy." She shared the quote saying, "You can't heal yourself out of being human." Charity's post further talked about the goal, "you can't transcend your humanity. that's not the goal." Well, the family and child therapist did not stop there. She further shared another post about healing. Charity believes, "healing is not a stick to beat others (or yourself) with." "Healing is not an all-or-nothing project. Healing is an ongoing journey of growth and change, not a destination," the post further claimed. Charity seems to be clarifying how she has been healing from her past.
What are Charity Lawson's goals?
The child and family therapist further talked about her goals in her story. After healing through the traumas Charity's goal is to feel valued. She shares a post, saying, "the goal is to take steps towards living a life that feels authentic & value based." Well, this is not it. She further adds, "the goal is to reduce the impact our symptoms or struggles have on our lives & learn how to navigate & address them."
Navigating does not mean Charity is not allowed to make mistakes in her life. But, what she also needs to do is learn from her mistakes. "The goal is to make mistakes & learn from them & take accountability," the post further adds. The last goal is to "constantly evolve, grow, and change- and to show up anyway."
Besides describing what her goals are, Charity also talked about what the goals should not be. "The goal isn't to put your life on hold until you're "fully healed"," said Charity's post. It further adds, "the goal isn't to create a hierarchy of people who have somehow "arrived" to a place of complete healing & people who "still have healing to do."
'The Bachelor' Season 27 air on ABC every Monday at 8 pm ET.