Who is Charity Lawson's ex? 'The Bachelor' star reveals experiencing infidelity in past relationships

Zach Shallcross learned about Charity Lawson's previous relationship and how emotionally abusive it was when she confided in him
Charity Lawson talks about her abusive ex during her one-on-one date with Zach Shallcross in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)
Charity Lawson talks about her abusive ex during her one-on-one date with Zach Shallcross in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)

ESTONIA, EUROPE: When Zach Shallcross tested positive for Covid during the fifth episode of 'The Bachelor,' not only was shooting in London halted but he was also compelled to cancel his one-on-one date with contestant Charity Lawson. Charity was given a second opportunity when the group traveled to Estonia in the February 27 episode, where she used her time alone with Zach to open up about her ex and the anguish she felt in the relationship.

Charity was naturally disappointed to miss out on that valuable time with Zach in London, but in episode 6, the two reunited for their date, taking a horse and carriage journey down a cobblestone road, sharing some intense smooches, and talking over a romantic dinner. "I can say I am falling for you," Charity says to Zach during their date. "You have a special way of making me feel really seen and chosen. I feel like I’m the only girl in this world right now," she explains afterward. Though the two appear to develop a powerful bond as the weeks pass, the episode also showed Charity crying as she addressed her abusive relationship in the past.

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Charity Lawson breaks down while talking about her ex in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)
Charity Lawson breaks down while talking about her ex in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)

Who is Charity Lawson's ex?

Charity was overjoyed to see Zach laud her and gaze at her as if there was no one more attractive than her in the recently published episode. Charity admitted in a confessional that their bond is "special," and Zach makes her feel "safe." After a day of sightseeing, the two kissed ardently on the streets of Tallinn. Charity and Zach have finished their day with a romantic dinner. Charity expressed her gratitude for Zach's treatment of her. She also disclosed that her previous relationship was mentally violent, and she broke down while talking about it. Despite the fact that there is no information on the internet about Charity's ex, he did not make her feel the way Zach did in just a few weeks.

Charity's social media shows almost no posts with any of the possible men with whom she may have had a love relationship in the past. As of the time of writing, her social media had only 33 posts. Zach is the only guy who has made an appearance on her Instagram.

Zach gives Charity rose at the end of their date in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)
Zach gives Charity a rose at the end of their date in 'The Bachelor' (ABC)

Was Charity Lawson emotionally abused by her ex? 

Charity told Zach about her previous relationship and how mentally abusive it was. She admitted to having been deceived, and the other lady was someone she knew. Charity also stated that it was extremely challenging for her to hide the relationship from her mother. Zach consoled Charity and opened up about his previous relationships. He informed her she was fortunate to be sitting with him and offered her a rose.

In her confessional, the Child and Family Therapist disclosed how her previous experience in her relationship nearly destroyed her. But after spending time with Zach, she gradually came out of her shell and began to see a future with him. Let us wait and see if Charity finds her ideal partner.

Stay tuned to ABC to catch up with all the drama. 'The Bachelor' 2023 airs on Mondays at 8 pm on ABC.

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