'Complete nightmare': Woman slammed for disgusting way she handled daughter’s diaper change
The Internet was up in arms against a woman's "unhygienic" handling of her baby daughter's dirty diaper. The woman's sister shared the whole scenario on Reddit. The post gained a lot of attention from netizens, as it garnered 176 comments in less than twenty-four hours.
In the Reddit post, the user wondered, "AITA for asking my sister to change her daughter's sh*t diaper upstairs?" and then she went on to explain the whole scene that made her feel like an "A** hole."
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She wrote, "To clarify bc it's been brought up. I'm at my parent's currently because I recently left my baby daddy. I was a stay-at-home mom for 4 1/2 years and just started my first job since then in October. My son stays here on weekends. I'm moving in the summer because I need to save first after not making any of my own money as a stay-at-home mom."
'She pays no bills'
She then explained about the whole family situation, writing, "I (28F) live with my two parents and two sisters (22 & 21). My youngest sister has a 15-month-old daughter. The dad is not in the picture, and she's currently in no contact with his family due to baby daddy's criminal charges. She's not doing this alone, though. She pays no bills. My parents fully financially support her, she has four built in sitters and a few close family/friends who help when they can… you get the picture. She's got a plethora of support for her and her daughter."
"Lately, my other sister (22f) and I have been feeling fed up with the situation," she added. "Our sister never picks up after her and her daughter. She leaves every dish she makes out, every drawer she opened open, the microwave open, food all over the counters and floor, high chair filthy, her daughter has dirty clothes on the floor, the living room has toys everywhere, and occasionally she forgets a pee diaper on the floor or tv stand, and leaves the front door open which has allowed my other sister's cat to escape this winter (don't worry we found her and she's fine)."
She continued by saying, "It's exhausting for us who work full time to come home to this. The other day we spoke with her about picking up more and she basically blew us off."
She then explained the recent scene that caused the furor. "Fast forward to yesterday, I was cleaning up after my son (5) and I smelled rancid toddler poop," she said. "I told my sister her daughter pooped and it smelled so bad to please change it upstairs. My other sister and my son chimed in asking to change it upstairs because it smelled so bad. She completely ignored us and just plopped her on the ground and started change her. We begged her to go up as she was undressing her and getting a diaper."
The user then explained how rudely her sister behaved. "She refused. I'm at my wit's end, so I told her she was so rude," the woman revealed. "And that she sucks bc she has 0 respect or common courtesy for those around her. I called her spoiled as well. She ended up storming out and going to her friends bc I'm "mean.""
She concluded, "She blocked me on everything including my number. I honestly feel like I'm justified because this is months of pent up frustrations & to be frank I could've been way meaner. AITA?"
'She seems like a nightmare'
The post quickly attracted heated comments. "NTA. She is clearly the problem and seems ungrateful for the support she being given considering her situation," someone noted.
A second user wrote in agreement, "NTA. She seems like a complete nightmare to live with! I don't think you did anything wrong asking her to simply go upstairs, especially knowing she doesn't care about cleanliness, no one wants to see or smell poop."
A third user suggested she move out of the house as soon as possible and wrote, "NTA. Move out as fast as you can. Your sister will never change as long as she has a family that will do her parenting for her (your parents and others). Moving out and choosing not to help her is your only option left. You can still support her without changing a single diaper or cleaning up after her."
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