'I hope she dumps you': Internet furious at man after he plans bizarre honeymoon surprise for fiancee
SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA: Internet users slammed a man for choosing a family vacation instead of taking his wife on a honeymoon because they hadn't made any plans. The man wrote on Reddit that his father offered the couple to join him on the paid family vacation, with the ignorant man continuing to only highlight his perks from the trip.
The Reddit user wrote, "I'm getting married in just a few weeks. We were planning on going on our honeymoon towards the end of the year but haven't put specific plans in place yet. I work for my dad and can pretty much get off whenever I'd like but she only has so much PTO, so we're trying to be strategic with our plans. I told everyone I would likely have to skip the vacation this year because of my fiancée's work situation and our honeymoon."
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On the Reddit post, he added, "Last week, my 'bonus dad' came to me and told me he had booked a room for me and my girlfriend was more than welcome to come along too if she changed her mind, but that he was insistent on the family being together for the trip. Honestly, there's nothing that can beat the vacations we take. The places are great and the company is even greater. My sister is so busy these days and lives out of state, so I get to catch up with her. The family we travel with has three sons who are some of my closest friends. Beyond all of that, you can't really beat an all expenses paid holiday."
The man continued, "I told my fiancée about this and she's very angry I didn't immediately shut it down. I told her that we weren't required to constantly do family activities and this could easily serve as part one to our honeymoon. We haven't started planning so there's no real plans to derail, and we can have our actual honeymoon as a first anniversary celebration since we weren't planning on going right after our wedding anyway." He concluded by asking AITA? (Am i the A**hole?).
'I hope she dumps you'
Interent users berated the man for being ignorant and not considering his wife's feeling. A user wrote, "YTA. The correct response was 'I don’t know, let me check with my fiancée first, since we haven’t set a date for the the honeymoon yet.' You need to pick your fiancée (who IS your family now) over your natal family. If you can’t do that, don’t marry her, for her sake." "'Your girlfriend can come if she changes her mind'. DUDE. YTA," a user seconded.
"YTA. What is wrong with you??? I hope she dumps you. Go on vacation with your sister. Your wife can do better," added another. Further, someone stated, "I mean why get married if you want to go on a family vacation instead of with new wife. Another added, "AGREEING? YTA. But the important piece of information here? Is that your fiancé is pissed. So shut it down. I can understand her feelings. I hope you can too. Act accordingly. Because that's where your bread is buttered."
"YTA. If you can’t figure out that you should be including your fiancé in the honeymoon plans and that it should be something you decide together, then you’re not ready to get married," remarked another user. "In all of this he only mentions the benefits of this holiday for him. HIS friends HIS family. While she's the one with limited PTO. YTA a honeymoon is meant for 2," noted someone. "YTA. And so is your bonus dad. He actually had the audacity of inviting your FIANCÉ to join the families on HER honeymoon lol Grow up. Or marry your family," wrote another.
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