'Their kids are suffering': Gwen Stefani's ex Gavin Rossdale making co-parenting 'impossible'

The former couple currently shares joint custody of their three children - Kingston, 16, Zuma, 14, and Apollo, 9
PUBLISHED MAY 16, 2023
Gavin Rossdale and Gwen Stefani dovorced after 13-year marriage (Morgan Lieberman and Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images)
Gavin Rossdale and Gwen Stefani dovorced after 13-year marriage (Morgan Lieberman and Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Gwen Stefani is reportedly at war with her ex-husband Gavin Rossdale, who is making it "impossible" for them to co-parent successfully. The ‘Rich Girl’ singer, 53, and the ‘Bush’ frontman, 57, had been married for 13 years before Stefani filed for divorce in 2015. The former couple currently shares joint custody of their three children - Kingston, 16, Zuma, 14, and Apollo, 9.

However, now reports are claiming that their children are suffering because of their conflicts. "Gavin continues to make it impossible to co-parent with Gwen Stefani. And their three kids are suffering," an insider dished to Radar Online. They also stated that Rossdale is apparently sending confusing signals to Stefani, who married Blake Shelton in 2021, by attending parent/teacher conferences and telling her that "she looks really pretty." “It just messes with Gwen's head,” the insider added.

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Singer Gwen Stefani and singer Gavin Rossdale attend the City of Hope Spirit of Life Gala honoring Apple's Eddy Cue at the Pacific Design Center on October 23, 2014 in West Hollywood, California.
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'The kids are always stuck in the middle, and it's truly sad'

Rossdale is also said to have made little attempt to get to know his boys' country-singing stepfather. According to the insider, the British rocker has never hung out with or even properly met Blake "beyond waving hi." "It's really strange," the source noted, adding "The kids are always stuck in the middle, and it's truly sad." It was also revealed that Stefani intended to bring her sons to Blake's ranch in Oklahoma, "where they are all the happiest” but Rossdale supposedly "won't allow it."

Zuma Nesta Rock Rossdale, Gwen Stefani, Gavin Rossdale and Kingston James McGregor Rossdale attend the premiere of Disney Pixar's
Zuma Nesta Rock Rossdale, Gwen Stefani, Gavin Rossdale and Kingston James McGregor Rossdale attend the premiere of Disney Pixar's "Monsters University" at the El Capitan Theatre on June 17, 2013 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Jason Kempin/Getty Images)

Rossdale is apparently putting Gwen's plans on hold, according to a source, who says the ‘Sweet Escape’ singer and her husband "are just waiting until the kids graduate from high school" before making the formal move. While co-parenting appears to be a challenge lately, Gwen and Gavin's divorce went very well despite the fact that they did not have a prenuptial agreement when they said "I do" in 2002. The former couple decided to share physical custody of the boys 50/50, with neither party seeking spousal or child support.

Actor Gavin Rossdale and recording artist Gwen Stefani attend the
Actor Gavin Rossdale and recording artist Gwen Stefani attend the "Constantine" film premiere at Grauman's Chinese Theatre on February 16, 2005 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)

'It seems like they argue constantly now'

(L-R) Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani attend the 48th Annual AFI Life Achievement Award Honoring Julie Andrews at Dolby Theatre on June 09, 2022 in Hollywood, California.
(L-R) Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani attend the 48th Annual AFI Life Achievement Award Honoring Julie Andrews at Dolby Theatre on June 09, 2022 in Hollywood, California. Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for TNT)

Following her divorce, Stefani again found love in her ‘Voice’ costar Shelton, whom she married at his ranch in 2021. However, reports have claimed that their steadfast marriage is going through a rough patch as Shelton’s inner circle believes that he might be "suffering from burnout" in his second marriage. "When they started dating, they couldn't keep their hands off each other. But the spark started disappearing after their wedding. It seems like they argue constantly now — they've even slept in separate bedrooms after particularly bad fights," a source told Radar Online in February.

(L-R) Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani attend Blake Shelton's Star Ceremony on The Hollywood Walk Of Fame on May 12, 2023 in Hollywood, California.
(L-R) Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani attend Blake Shelton's Star Ceremony on The Hollywood Walk Of Fame on May 12, 2023 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Frazer Harrison/Getty Images)

It was also noted that Stefani and Shelton endured challenges even though they enjoyed the convenience and novelty of performing together on ‘The Voice’. They "played it sweet for the cameras as when they were both coaches," said the source, "but behind the scenes, there was sometimes a clash of egos. He would often get all the attention. And that would hit a nerve — she was jealous." The tipster continued by saying that Shelton loved being on the singing reality show but the drama off-camera forced him to leave the show.

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