Arizona woman discovers husband's cheating ways with BIRTHMARK on best friend's baby
Friends like fam- no, the appropriate saying would be friends like foes! An Arizona woman had the worst realization as she was in the birthing room helping deliver her best friend's baby. What usually is perceived as a bonding and bond-strengthening experience for the birth giver and their birthing partner ended up horribly for Hailey Custer from Arizona. The 28-year-old mother of four from Wickenburg had reality hit her like a rock after discovering her husband's cheating ways in the very moment that she helped deliver her friend's baby. It was reported that her husband Travis Bowling, 36, allegedly cheated with her bestie and the baby she helped deliver was their love child. Names of the people involved have been changed for privacy.
In the past, we've reported on cheating spouses, including one Chris, 44, from British Columbia who sought a relationship on Tinder. Things ended up badly for him as a TikToker named Vanessa Riley outed him for trying to go behind his disabled wife's back. "Married looking for a women that wants cheating husband for fun. I work, have a car. Wife is disabled not getting what I need. Not looking for lot of women. Just the right fit fo me," read his profile bio. In the video Riley shared, the caption read, “Your internet big sis saving you from cheaters.” Riley, in the video, showed that she tracked down and sent a message to the alleged cheating man’s wife. The message said, “Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I think your husband is cheating on you. I saw his Tinder and recognized him from Instagram. Here’s his profile."
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Custer discovered she was in a birthing room delivering her BFFs baby whose father allegedly is her husband Travis. She realized this after she noticed a rare hereditary birthmark on her best friend's daughter's neck. This was identical to the one present on her husband. Custer claimed Travis and her were married for six years. She said he cheated on her with at least 30 women in this duration and had kids with two others.
“I heard rumors that my friend was pregnant and homeless, so I reached out to her. I felt the need to help her,” Custer told an outlet. “We had just got home from the hospital and I was changing the baby and when she turned her neck the birth defect popped out. When they’re babies it is really hard to see, and I wasn’t looking for it," she added. Speaking about how she processed the whole discovery, Custer added. “I felt it and was like ‘OK’, this shock came over me.
“When I found out my friend was standing next to me, I looked at her and you could just tell. She couldn’t say anything, she just dropped her head and looked to the floor, and I just knew. There were no words that were said, I just knew. I was in a lot of shock in the beginning. I couldn't even process what had happened, it was almost like a stage of grief. Like you have your shock, your anger and you come to the conclusion that this is actually real life, this is actually happening.”
Custer has decided to not break ties with her friend and maintain a cordial relationship with her now ex-husband. She shared her story on TikTok originally and the video amassed over 3 million views. “A lot of the comments though have been in support of me but there’s been some heat towards my friend which I try to shut down as soon as possible because that was not my goal. It’s got 3.4 million views now and has just blown up. It’s huge for everyone to know that I found forgiveness for myself. I’ve had to find forgiveness for myself and for the children," Custer said.
“That’s the main point, you can walk through anything in life, and you can find forgiveness it just heals you from the inside out. When you don’t forgive yourself it’s like you drinking poison and wanting them to die. When I forgive for myself, it means I’m forgiving because I can’t stay sick anymore," she added.