Vanessa Riley: TikToker hailed as she outs man cheating on disabled wife on Tinder
In a viral video, a TikTok user says she saw a married man on Tinder looking to cheat on his disabled wife. She proceeded to out him. Vanessa Riley (@vanessariley_hub) was swiping through Tinder when she came across Chris, a 44-year-old man from North Cowichan, British Columbia.
In her now-viral TikTok video, Riley showed her followers the Tinder profile of Chris. The profile’s bio said, “Married looking for a women that wants cheating husband for fun. I work, have a car. Wife is disabled not getting what I need. Not looking for lot of women. Just the right fit fo me.”
Riley wrote on her video’s caption, “Your internet big sis saving you from cheaters.” Riley, in the video, showed that she tracked down and sent a message to the alleged cheating man’s wife. The message said, “Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I think your husband is cheating on you. I saw his Tinder and recognized him from Instagram. Here’s his profile.”
Riley also showed a response from the woman, who said, “Oh my god, that’s Chris. I honestly don’t know what to say… I can’t believe this. Thank u.” Riley wrote to her, “If I can give you a bit of advice, don’t tell him you know yet. Get your ducks in a row, talk to a lawyer, figure out how to make his pockets HURT before you tell him.”
Commenters were horrified by Chris' callousness. They also praised Riley. “This is messed up,” wrote one user. “His wife deserves better.” Another TikTok user wrote, “As a disabled person, this digusts me. His wife deserves so much more, and I hope she has the independence that many of us don't to leave this guy.” Another who said she’s a disabled woman wrote: “What hurt most is the ‘wife is disabled’ so why marry us then? If you don’t wanna truly deal with it. Disabled doesn’t mean no feelings.” One commenter told Riley that she was “doing god’s work.”
Riley told her viewers that she is essentially on a mission to expose cheaters in the Vancouver Island area via Tinder. She wrote, “Just put up my latest one!! Exposing the cheaters of Van Isle one at a time.” Ad she reportedly exposed three other alleged Tinder cheaters to their wives.
As per the Daily Mail, one of them was a 41-year-old Simon Fraser University graduate from Burnaby, who listed his name as “Bored Housedad”. His bio said, “I've been married a very long time and need to spice things up. Any naughty ladies out there interested in some casual clandestine fun?” The second was a man called Tony, a 42-year-old handyman from Surrey, who wrote that he was “attached but lonely with a dirty fun-loving mind.” He wrote on his bio, “Looking for someone casual but ongoing. A safe discreet ongoing companion.”
Riley also called out a man called Jay, a 48-year-old whose bio said that he was “looking for a discreet summer friend,” and that he was “Attached but lacking something and hoping to find it here.” However, when Riley tracked down and texted his wife, she was shut down.
“Hey, I'm sorry to tell you this but I came across your husband on Tinder. Here's his profile and a pic of him that I reverse searched to his Facebook page,” Riley wrote, to which the wife reportedly replied, “Get the f**k out of my relationship. He would NEVER cheat on me unless some s**t like u tries to hook ur little claws in him. U should be ashamed trying to deyce marrien men [sic].”