'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After' Season 7: Did Bilal get vasectomy? Fans fear his real reason for not wanting a child
Fans think Bilal treats his wife as a child as she is made to aplogize constantly
KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI: Shaeeda makes several attempts to persuade Bilal to have a child, but he refuses. This makes fans of '90 Day Fiancé' believe Bilal's refusal to have a kid is due to something else.
Shaeeda pulls Bilal to a baby shop, where he tries everything to get away. In the September 18 episode of '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?,' Bilal tells the store workers, "She don't need to be in here right now." Shaeeda swiftly adds, "He has kids already, but I don’t have any kids." The lighthearted conversation gradually escalates, prompting Bilal to seek guidance from his mother later in the episode.
Shaeeda will not give up. She tries to get Bilal to look at all the baby items, but he is hesitant. This is not the stance Shaeeda had in mind. "When I agreed to the prenup, I specifically added a clause that we will try to have a baby by the time I am 40. But I’m like 2 and a half years away from 40. By that time, I might be too old. If I don’t get a baby by 40, he’s going to pay."
"I just want a baby," she tells Bilal. Because they ended themselves at the baby shop, she believes "God is telling" them something. "We’re not having a child, like this year," Bilal explains to Shaeeda. Bilal says they should get to know each other better before having a child. He selects a baby clothing and declares that when "one of these happen, life as you know stops."
Later on, he continues, "she's jumping the gun. The whole kid thing, I thought we had this settled, considering that she wanted to put this thing in our pre-nuptial agreement about when we’re going to plan on having children. But we’re not ready to have a child. We have to work on living together first." Shaeeda won't concede ground. She makes note of visiting a fertility expert. Bilal claims, "we haven’t even tried having children." Shaeeda explains that she simply needs to know how much time she has left. "He needs to take my timetable and health seriously because I’m getting old. This could be my last chance and, trust me, I’m not going to waste it," Shaeeda exclaims.
Now, fans of the show fear there's something Bilal has been hiding to Shaeeda, as they ask: "@TLC Bilal did you get a vasectomy before you were together and don't really want to tell her ? #90dayfiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Asking Shaeeda to stop begging another fan also offered some advice to her: "Shaeeda…Freeze your eggs, leave Bilal and get some self esteem! PLEASE STOP BEGGING THAT MAN!#90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Some fans also feel Shaeeda should be in talks with her lawyer about where Bilal stands about the whole having a child thing: "Shaeeda should take this piece of evidence straight from Bilal's mouth to her lawyer right now. #90dayfiance #90DayFianceHEA #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." A viewer tweeted how Bilal is stalling her with his decision: "A couple years?!, Bilal is trying to stall until it’s too late for her. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter."
Asking Bilal to go seek therapy, a fan wrote: "Bilal needs therapy . That man does not want children, told her to add it to the prenup. The agreement is to have a baby by 40… she’s about 38. What “couple of years” do you think she has ? #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." One fan feels Bilal isn't clear about the legal agreement he has with his wife: "The agreement wasn’t to wait, it was to have the child before she turns 40… #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Calling out Shaeeda and Bilal's relationship as 'abusive,' one fan tweeted: "Bilal & Shaeeda’s situation showcases how a spouse can be ABUSIVE without physical or verbal violence. We are literally watching a woman being used & torn down by a man who doesn’t understand his position as her husband. Having $ doesn’t make you husband material. #90DayFiance." Seeing the dynamic of the duo, another fan tweeted: "Bilal constantly treats Shaeeda like a child who needs to be disciplined. Even their promo pic makes it seem like he’s scolding her. #90DayFiance."
Bilal needs therapy . That man does not want children, told her to add it to the prenup. The agreement is to have a baby by 40… she’s about 38. What “couple of years” do you think she has ? #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter— Dean Dorthy Davenport (@_TheJSpot) September 19, 2022
Bilal & Shaeeda’s situation showcases how a spouse can be ABUSIVE without physical or verbal violence. We are literally watching a woman being used & torn down by a man who doesn’t understand his position as her husband. Having $ doesn’t make you husband material. #90DayFiance— Barbara Shanise (@BarbaraShanise) September 19, 2022
Fans also call out Bilal for playing the victim and duping Shaeeda all along: "Bruh, if anyone was duped, it was Shaeeda! #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA." Some fans also feel Shaeeda is being treated like a child in her relationship: "Shaeeda is constantly apologizing. There’s being accountable and then there’s being treated like a child. #90DayFiance." They also slam him for flipping the story when talking to his mother later: "And for my next trick, I’m going to lie to my mother and flip the story to make Shaeeda look like a bad person and paint myself as a victim #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFiance."
Shaeeda is constantly apologizing. There’s being accountable and then there’s being treated like a child. #90DayFiance— Tyne Hall (@TyneHall) September 19, 2022
And for my next trick, I’m going to lie to my mother and flip the story to make Shaeeda look like a bad person and paint myself as a victim #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFiance pic.twitter.com/QnLGf73kY8— Shut up, 90 Day Fiancé is on (@90DayCray1) September 19, 2022
'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' airs on TLC every Sunday at 8 pm PT/ET.
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