'The Bachelorette' Season 20 star Brayden Bowers exposed on social media by exes who claim suitor never wanted to get married: 'Charity… girl, RUN!'

Brayden Bowers' exes exposed the contestant in 8-part TikTok series and claimed 'The Bachelorette' star 'made it clear that he was not interested in getting married'
UPDATED JUL 20, 2023
'The Bachelorette' star Brayden Bowers was recently exposed by ex-girlfriends on social media (ABC)
'The Bachelorette' star Brayden Bowers was recently exposed by ex-girlfriends on social media (ABC)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Brayden Bowers, a Season 20 participant on 'The Bachelorette', is again in hot water after one of his ex-girlfriends alleged that he went on the show immediately after their breakup. According to a TikTok user, Brayden dated her immediately before the show began taping.

Brayden has divided audiences since his first appearance on the Charity Lawson season of the show. He got the First Impression Rose, dazzling Charity with his giddiness and exuberant vitality. They had a brief kiss, but Charity's brother Nehemiah, who was acting as a contender at the time, noticed that Brayden was bragging about their kiss. It was the first of many red flags, but none worried viewers as much as Brayden's propensity for dangly earrings. Countless jewelry memes were created by fans to demonstrate their dislike for the contestant. But it appears that another devastating red flag has been raised concerning Brayden. Patty Spak, a yoga instructor and the host of 'The Healing House' podcast, stated that he dated her before appearing on 'The Bachelorette'.


@mzxpatrisha Two scared-of- commitment people put together was interesting. It all ended for the greater good 🍣. I wish you the best of luck on your journey ❤️ #thebachelorette #bachelorette #bachelornation #meditation #brayden #anxiousavoidantrelationships ♬ Get You the Moon - Syf

 

'Meet the fam, and they end up on the Bachelorette right after'

On TikTok, Patty wrote, "POV: You dated 1 person in San Diego, spend the holidays, meet the fam, and they end up on the Bachelorette right after."

The video then cuts to a supercut featuring photographs of Brayden and Patty together. "Whoaa, this better blow up," @breetendo64, a TikTok user, wrote. "How are producers not doing better due diligence on these people?!" added another user. "Why didn’t you tell him the dangly earring were the WORST," one TikToker said.

Since Brayden was sent home the previous week, this revelation is unlikely to affect his connection with Charity, but it may be a source of disagreement during the upcoming live 'Men Tell All' show.


@kyliescudder charity… girl, RUN! i promise he aint worth it. i hate to see him do to you what he did to me 😪😂😂 #commitmentissues #liar #thebachelorette #brayden ♬ original sound - Kylie Scudder

 

'Been in love once? You said you loved me'

Another one of Brayden's ex-girlfriend named Kylie Scudder recently spoke out on her own TikTok page. Kylie highlighted the point in the video when Brayden said, "I've only been in love once in my life, and it ended terribly." She then displayed herself in the picture and said, "Been in love once? You said you loved me."

Kylie captioned the photo, "Charity… girl, RUN! I promise he aint worth it. I hate to see him do to you what he did to me #commitmentissues #liar #thebachelorette #brayden."

The Bachelor Nation left a lot of questions for Kylie and their opinions about Brayden in the video's comments section. "Girl, did the earrings not bother you??" one inquired. Kylie responded to the remark with, "He didn't have them when we were together."

Kylie said in another video that Brayden contacted her and begged her to remove the initial video. She also confessed that during their four-month relationship, Brayden was very hot and cold with her. Sometimes he was too affectionate, but other times she questioned whether he really liked her. On top of that, Kylie stated that Brayden made it apparent that he was not interested in getting married.

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