Maria Shriver wanted no part in ex-husband Arnold Schwarzenegger's Netflix docuseries: 'She politely declined'

The series covers the tumultuous period when Schwarzenegger's marriage to Maria Shriver unraveled due to his extramarital affair and the subsequent revelation of a secret son
UPDATED JUN 14, 2023
Arnold Schwarzenegger with his then wife Maria Shriver greeting supporters before he was sworn in for a second term as California's governor on January 5, 2007, in Sacramento, California (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)
Arnold Schwarzenegger with his then wife Maria Shriver greeting supporters before he was sworn in for a second term as California's governor on January 5, 2007, in Sacramento, California (Justin Sullivan/Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: An emotionally charged three-part Netflix docuseries titled 'Arnold' — which premiered on June 7 — traces Arnold Schwarzenegger's remarkable journey from athlete to actor to American politician. Delving into both his professional and personal life, the series captivates audiences with untold stories, including the tumultuous period when Schwarzenegger's marriage to Maria Shriver unraveled due to his extramarital affair and the subsequent reveal of a secret son.

'She politely declined'

During an interview with Yahoo Entertainment, filmmaker Lesley Chilcott shed light on the absence of Maria Shriver in the documentary. Chilcott confirmed that she engaged in multiple conversations with Shriver during the production process, but ultimately, Shriver "politely declined" the invitation to participate. Chilcott said, "We did talk, we talked a few times," and when asked about Shriver's participation, she explained, "She politely declined."

WESTWOOD, CA - JUNE 30: Actor Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver attend the world premiere of
Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver attend the world premiere of 'Terminator 3: Rise of the Machines' at the Mann Village Theater on June 30, 2003, in Westwood, California (Photo by Kevin Winter/Getty Images)

Notably, Schwarzenegger and Shriver's four children — Katherine, Christina, Patrick, and Christopher — also did not contribute to the series, apart from Christina's brief on-camera appearance filmed at Schwarzenegger's Los Angeles residence. Chilcott confirmed that the children did not participate in the documentary.

LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 30: (L-R) Christina Schwarzenegger, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Maria Shriver and Katherine Schwarzenegger attend the premiere of National Geographic's
(L-R) Christina Schwarzenegger, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Maria Shriver, and Katherine Schwarzenegger attend the premiere of National Geographic's 'The Long Road Home' at Royce Hall on October 30, 2017, in Los Angeles, California (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images)

'Love child' Joseph Baena makes an appearance in docuseries

However, viewers do catch a glimpse of Joseph Baena, Schwarzenegger's son with the family's former housekeeper, Mildred "Patty" Baena. Joseph was born in 1996 while he was still married to Shriver. Towards the conclusion of the final episode, Joseph appears alongside his father, engaging in a workout session at the gym. Although Joseph remains silent on camera, his presence adds an intriguing dimension to the narrative.

SANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA - APRIL 09: Joseph Baena attends the Nickelodeon's Kids' Choice Awards 2022 at Barker Hangar on April 09, 2022 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for Nickelodeon)
Joseph Baena attends Nickelodeon's Kids' Choice Awards 2022 at Barker Hangar on April 09, 2022, in Santa Monica, California (Photo by Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for Nickelodeon)

Chilcott revealed, "It's difficult for him [Schwarzenegger] to talk about the affair because he cannot talk about it without someone's feelings getting hurt. That was a pretty grave transgression... After we talked about it, there wasn't much else we could do that day. I don't believe he intends to talk about this subject anymore." Chilcott further explained Schwarzenegger's emotional state, saying, "He was emotionally spent after that interview."

Schwarzenegger was hesitant to 'revisit' scandal

In the docuseries, Schwarzenegger himself acknowledges his hesitancy to revisit the scandal, stating, "I think that I have caused enough pain for my family because of my f**k up. Because of that, everyone had to suffer, Maria had to suffer, the kids had to suffer, Joseph, his mother, everyone." He further reflects, "I am going to have to live with it the rest of my life. People will remember my successes and they will also remember my failures. This is a major failure. I had failures in the past in my career, but this is a whole different ball game, dimension of failure."

UNDATED (FILE PHOTO): Austrian born actor and former bodybuilder Arnold Schwarzenegger poses in a bathing suit and flexes his muscles in a bodybuilding pose, circa 1980. Schwarzenegger announced on August 6, 2003 that he will run for California governor. (Photo by Hulton Archive/Getty Images)
Austrian-born actor and former bodybuilder Arnold Schwarzenegger poses in a bathing suit and flexes his muscles in a bodybuilding pose, circa 1980. Schwarzenegger announced on August 6, 2003, that he will run for California governor. (Photo by Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

Additionally, the series uncovers an unexpected anecdote from Schwarzenegger's first encounter with Shriver's mother, Eunice Kennedy Shriver. Schwarzenegger humorously recalls, "I said, 'Well, your daughter has a really nice ass.' I have to tell you that," adding, "Eunice said, 'Thank you,' and then she walked away, kind of like, 'What the hell.'" Reflecting on the incident, Schwarzenegger added with a laugh, "It was a stupid thing to say. I don't know why I said it. I think it was the first thing that came to my mind."

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