'Bachelor in Paradise' 2022: Fans slam Jessenia for judging Andrew's experience on Paradise, say 'he’s just not that into you'
Jessenia admitted to Mara that she felt Andrew and she had a solid relationship up until he dumped her in favor of someone else
VALLARTA, MEXICO: While Ency Abedin and Andrew Spencer were having a good time on the dance floor, Jessenia Cruz told a still-single Mara Agrait about seeing him with another lady. After then, Jessenia resolved to address Andrew about the incident. She informed him that after being with her and other women, he "skirted by" in paradise. Fans slammed Jessenia on social media for smearing Andrew and backed him, saying he was only doing what he was supposed to on a 'dating show.'
While the majority of the company was having a good time at the dance, Mara and Jessenia were flying solo. Jessenia was the one who was truly suffering with that truth, as she watched her ex-lover, Andrew, flirt with Ency.
"I don't think he ever took me as seriously as I took him," Jessenia stated, before adding, she's "most frustrated in myself, because you think you can read the signs and I can’t." Jessenia opted to isolate Andrew for a private talk, telling him, "I'm beside myself because I fully focused all of my time and attention on you, Andrew. And now I still don't know where your head is at."
While Andrew said he went from girl to girl in search of "love," Jessenia questioned why he kept seeking when he wasn't emotionally in the "right place."
Ency tried to pull Andrew away from the discussion at one point, but he resisted and proceeded by apologizing to Jessenia for her "wasted time." Ency was having none of it and soon returned to demand Andrew go with her. "I don't know what validation you're giving her, but I'm asking you to walk away from this right now if you care to pursue anything with us," Ency stated. "... You entertaining this and staying here longer is giving her some validation."
Jessenia chastised Ency for her "ultimatum." "I'm literally just trying to let her know where my heart was," Andrew informed his new sweetheart. I want to be friends with her after this."
Ency stormed out before Andrew finally told Jessenia what was going on with him. "My heart's somewhere else. My heart's still with someone else. Teddi," he was speaking about the woman who left Paradise after realizing her affections weren't as powerful as his. "I don't know what the reasons are, but that's the reason why. I have nothing here. I have nothing here. I tried."
Jessenia then announced her departure from Paradise. She bemoaned as she was being taken away, "I'm so exhausted of picking the wrong guys... How many times do I have to go through this?"
Fans took to Twitter to remind Jessenia that Andrew is not into her, "Jessenia, what are we achieving with this conversation?! He’s just not that into you." Fans also blamed Jessenia for ruining Andrew's night, "I’m not gonna lie I feel like part of Jessenia just wanted to ruin Andrew’s night and she definitely succeeded at that lol." A fan also called her out for juding Andrew and his dating process, "Who TF does Jessenia think she is?!?! …to be judging how Andrew’s handled his experience in Paradise. Did she forget how she DROPPED whoever it was last summer the second she went on a date w/ someone new?!" Some fans also felt Jessenia made a fool of herself with the stunt she pulled, "Jessenia made a fool of herself. She told Andrew she still didn’t know where his head is, but he told her she wasn’t it. He was clear on that on the beach. She didn’t need to bring drama to the dance."
Who TF does Jessenia think she is?!?! …to be judging how Andrew’s handled his experience in Paradise. Did she forget how she DROPPED whoever it was last summer the second she went on a date w/ someone new?!#BachelorNation #bachelorinparadise #bachelorinparadiseabc pic.twitter.com/aCRDclxrvL— Wally Balls (@MrBillyWalsh) November 16, 2022
Jessenia made a fool of herself. She told Andrew she still didn’t know where his head is, but he told her she wasn’t it. He was clear on that on the beach. She didn’t need to bring drama to the dance. #BachelorInParadise #BachelorInParadiseABC pic.twitter.com/pldbJp9hzF— Who Dat Cat 😺🇺🇸🇵🇷 (@Louisiana_Cat) November 16, 2022
Another viewer also asked Jessenia not to try to act as Andrew's shrink, "Jessenia.. we call this, “dating” or “not settling” or “the point of the show” you aren’t Andrews shrink." Further slamming her for leaving behind a mess before leaving the show, a fan tweeted, "Jessenia took the first car out of Paradise tonight like." On the other hand, some fans also came in Jessenia's defense and called Andrew out for using her, "Sorry but Andrew was just using Jessenia to buy time and that’s hurtful…she has a right to be upset." Whilst justifying Jessenia's feelings, another fan added, "Hold on, I’m confused. Why are y’all acting like Jessenia doesn’t deserve some closure and an honest conversation here?"
Sorry but Andrew was just using Jessenia to buy time and that’s hurtful…she has a right to be upset #bachelorinparadise— AP (@APsomaras) November 16, 2022
Hold on, I’m confused. Why are y’all acting like Jessenia doesn’t deserve some closure and an honest conversation here? #BachelorInParadise— baby theranos 💎 (@lilstrad_15) November 16, 2022
'Bachelor in Paradise' airs on ABC on Mondays and Tuesdays at 8 pm.
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