'I know what they desire': Sex worker reveals the THREE reasons why married men cheat
SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA: Are men more likely to cheat on their partners than women? Well, that’s unknown. But Samantha X, a former high-profile escort, reveals why men cheat and detail three reasons behind it saying, “There's two things I know men are very good at. The first one is separating love and sex. And the second one is lying.”
Samantha, who said she is not a psychologist nor a wife, wrote, “I know why husbands cheat, I know what they secretly desire and I know what goes on in their minds.” She added, “If there's one thing married men taught me, it was not to get married. If you wanted to ruin a great relationship, walk down the aisle," as per Daily Mail.
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Who is Samantha X?
According to her website, Samantha, whose real name is Amanda Goff, was a tabloid journalist in London before moving to Sydney in 2000, where she worked in TV and magazines. Describing her journey, she wrote on the website, "Then at 37, after two kids and separation, I completely changed my life. I walked out of my nine-to-five and became Australia’s most high-profile escort Samantha X. I wrote two best-selling books and was the focus of constant media attention, gaining fans and critics worldwide." And added, "I am a best-selling author, journalist, former escort, business owner and coach. I hold a certificate in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and am a regular media personality."
She also briefed about herself in the DailyMail article writing the decision of ditching her "normal life" to become an escort is not something most people make "when looking for a change," but it suited her. She said that she ended up running her own escort agency for mature women. "My busiest lady was over 60," she said and added, "I met a lot of fantastic women, and I came to understand men, all types of men. Single, widowed, divorced, young, old, disabled, sick…and of course, married men."
Here are 3 reasons why men cheat
She then detailed three reasons why men cheat, with three disclaimers, "not all men, not all marriages and it is never your fault."
1) They want someone to talk to
She wrote, "They are emotional and extremely vulnerable. They tell me they're too scared to be vulnerable at home, and instead feel they need to be the 'strong one.'" She further said, "Why they chose to pay thousands of dollars to an escort rather than see a counselor, even I found baffling and did point this out several times. 'I don't want to be judged,' was always the answer."
2) 'They miss foreplay'
"There is a lot to be said for the two-minute quickie. But men secretly want to spend hours in bed with you but say they got sick of being rejected. They miss foreplay (pleasuring you not the other way round) and they don't always want it all to be over before you can say 'pass me the TV controls, MAFS is on," she stated.
3) 'We always blame men'
"When it comes to cheating, we always blame men," she said. And then narrated that they are not always the one who cheats but "they're the ones that get caught." She then wrote, "One married man in his late 50s, spent two hours sitting on the bed fully dressed reeling about his wife who had just gone off with her personal trainer. Another man was shell shocked after his wife walked out on him and their kids." "While a wife may turn a blind eye to her husband's slip up, men won't. Their ego won't allow it," she added.