'90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days': Ella slammed by fans for 'fetishizing' Asian men

Ella believes that she has met the man of her dreams, but fans think otherwise
Ella on '90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' (TLC)
Ella on '90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' (TLC)

Finding love can be tricky. It's not always easy to find someone who compliments you well and has your best intention at heart. Relationships can often leave a person hurt once it runs its course. Ella from Idaho is no stranger to heartache.

For Ella, whose story is a part of the '90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days', she believes that she has found the person of her dreams (like most of the cast does). Although she hasn't met her boyfriend in person yet, she truly believes that Johnny, a 34-year-old from China, is the man of her dreams. Can't seem to get enough of relationship-based reality TV? Then you might want to catch up on 'The Bachelorette', 'Love Island', 'Love Never Lies' and 'Bachelor in Paradise'.

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Ella explained that she is very into Asian culture, as she enjoys anime. Growing up, she has always struggled with her weight and has been in multiple relationships where the men have used her emotionally. Having been hurt before, Ella found Johnny on a group that caters to Asian men attracted to white women and vice versa. She considers Johnny to be the man of her dreams and even tried to convince her mother, Debbie, that Johnny only wants the best for her, including helping her with her weight.

Fans, on the other hand, found their whole relationship absurd. "Is this enough to build a relationship? #90Dayfiance #90dayfiancebefore90days #90dayfiancebeforethe90days" tweeted a fan. "I didn't realize Johnny said he's gonna help her lose weight. He will use her weight against her and treat her bad it will be just like when she was in school. #90dayfiancebeforethe90days", added another. "How does Ella...at her grown age think fetishizing East Asian men and their culture is ok #90DayFiance #90dayfiancebeforethe90days" tweeted a fan. "Yes Ella he's "the one". "The one" that's going to take you for everything you have #90dayfiancebeforethe90days" noted another. "Ella..listen to Mama...she's watched this fool hand over $6k to some idiot in Morocco...tryna over compensate for "fat girl" syndrome... #90dayfiancebeforethe90days #90DayFiance" tweeted a fan, comparing Ella's situation to '90 Day' alum, Nicole. "Ellie mama ain't shit. Low self-esteem doesn't form out of thin air. She needs to hug her daughter and tell her she's beautiful. " added another. 



 



 



 



 



 



 

Ella even opened up to her friends that she and Johnny have engaged in sexual activities over video calls, much to their surprise. However, despite Ella stating that the two of them have a great connection, her previous relationship seems to haunt her. She was previously dating an Indian man who she met in Thailand. However, her ex refused to do anything sexual with her, which led her insecurities about her body to grow. Now, with Johnny, the same concern seems to prevail. 

'90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days' Season 5 airs every Sunday at 8/7c on TLC. 
 
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