'90 Day Fiance' Season 9: Fans say Kobe is 'ignoring the red flags' with Emily

While Kobe has been trying to make things work, it looks like he's running out of time and patience
Kobe on '90 Day Fiance' (TLC)
Kobe on '90 Day Fiance' (TLC)

With the clock ticking on the 90-day time frame, the couples on Season 9 of '90 Day Fiance' are now coming around to tie the knot. However, this doesn't mean that their disputes are resolved -- it only goes to show that they've run out of time and a decision has to be made.

This season, Kobe and Emily have struggled with communication. Their situation continues to worsen, with Emily being pregnant and Kobe wanting to move to Ohio. However, as their wedding day fast approaches, it looks like they both are now aware they might not be as compatible as they thought.

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Kobe's desire to move to Ohio seems to have ruffled Emily's feathers. seeing that she decided to have a conversation with him about trust just before the wedding. This rubbed Kobe the wrong way, as he pointed out that the reason he felt everything behind in Cameroon and came to America was so that he could be with Emily. He was upset with the entire conversation and stormed off, while muttering 'f--k off'. In her confessionals, Emily noted that she was not looking to cause a fight, but wanted him to reassure her. However, fans called her out for being selfish.

"Emily, how are YOU reassuring? Explain it to us like we’re 5 years old #90DayFiance" asked a fan. "Kobe wants to be with his son. He wants to work and provide. He wants to be a good man… I don’t see any of that by being with Emily #90DayFiance #tlc" tweeted another. "Kobe is another one ignoring the . He should be questioning her, not the other way around. What exactly is he gaining from being there with her. She’s no prize at all. #90DayFiance" wrote a fan. "Emily better realize that there are women who would snatch up Kobe and respect his culture and live a happy life. #90DayFiance" said a fan. "The fact that he even already has a friend in this country is surprising to me and it makes perfect sense he would be open to being closer to that friend when he just left his entire life behind #90DayFiance" added another. "This season EVERY single person on this show has doubted getting married. That has to be a red flag. How do you plan a wedding with someone you dont even think you should be in a relationship with. #90dayfiance" said another.



 



 



 



 



 



 




What do you think? Will Emily and Kobe tie the knot? Or will Emily's stubborn ways cause a rift between the couple? Sound off in the comments below. 
Catch '90 Day Fiancé' Season 9 on Sundays at 8 pm ET/PT on TLC.


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