'90 Day Fiance': Shaeeda's mom tells her 'she has a choice', fans call it 'solid advice'

While her mother laughed at the state of her home in the USA, Shaeeda's mom told her not to give up but also reminded her that she could return home
Shaeeda on '90 Day Fiance' (TLC)
Shaeeda on '90 Day Fiance' (TLC)

Change is never easy and if there is anyone who can agree with that, it would be the cast of '90 Day Fiance'. For some cast members, they leave their lives and family behind in the name of love, unsure or unprepared for what awaits them on the other side.

Ever since she arrived in the USA, Shaeeda has undoubtedly been having a hard time. Bilal's practical joke wasn't one that she found funny and fans agreed with her, seeing that she was immediately concerned about how he used his money.

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She'd much rather have him spend money on a place to stay than on luxury items, which Bilal conveniently ignored while trying to 'test' her. However, Shaeeda still hoped to marry Bilal and wanted to address their situation better, even if it meant working on their relationship from scratch. She later called her mother to talk about her situation. On seeing the dilapidated house, Shaeeda's mother laughed and joked about Bilal renting his suits but reminded her daughter to not go by first impressions and try to make things work. She also stated that she could always just return home if it got too much to bear. 

Fans were glad that Shaeeda's mother could see the humor in the situation and more importantly, supported her daughter and encouraged her to have an open mind. 
 "When Sheeda mom said Bilal was renting those suits I lost it #90DayFiance" added another. "The way Sha's mother laughed at that house to falling apart. reminded me of my own grandmother. #90dayfiance #90dayfiancè" added another. "Shaheeda's mom providing some solid advice. her laugh at seeing the ceiling is a sign of a true caribbean woman tho  #90DayFiance" said another. "The parents don't say this enough. "You always have a choice. Jump on the next plane and bring your backside home" #90DayFiance" said a fan. "Shaeeda can't work; she's dependent on Bilal. Why shouldn't she be upset at him taking her to a broke-down home? She _should_ be asking to see his bank statements, can he provide for her? #90DayFiance" tweeted a fan. 



 



 



 



 



 

But, not everyone was on Shaeeda's side of the situation, seeing that they believed she was a part of the issue as well. ""The person I fell in love with was in Trinidad with Louis Vuitton luggage" girl I WISH he had moved you into a shack #90DayFiance," tweeted a fan. "Now I wanna know where ALL the Bilal haters are at after hearing Shaeda say she fell in love with the money version of Bilal. That her feelings changed based on his money situation. GARBAGE. #90DayFiance," added a fan. 



 



 

'90 Day Fiancé' Season 9 airs every Sunday at 8/7c on TLC.

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