'The Ultimatum Queer Love' Episode 10 'The Reunion': Why was Mildred Woody arrested? Tiff Der accuses ex-fiancee of 'gaslighting'

In The Ultimate: Queer Love's reuinion, Mildred Woody and Tiff Der revelead they are no longer engaged and the former confessed to being arrested
PUBLISHED JUN 7, 2023
Mildred Bustillo and Tiff Der got engaged in 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love' finale but later separated (Netflix)
Mildred Bustillo and Tiff Der got engaged in 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love' finale but later separated (Netflix)

AUSTIN, TEXAS: In Episode 10 of 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love' titled 'The Reunion', Mildred Woody, aka Mildred Bustillo, and Tiff Der confessed that they parted their ways after being engaged on the show. Moreover, Mildred revealed that she was arrested after she asked Tiff to move in with her. This left everyone in shock and the reaction of the cast members of the Netflix dating show was worth watching.

Mildred confessed in the Reunion, "It's really hard for me to say. You know, um, I was arrested." She then explained what led to her arrest. After the harsh confessions, things grew even more gruesome between Mildred and Tiff. It led to Tiff walking out of the filming of the Reunion episode.

'The Ultimatum Queer Love' star Tiff Der (Netflix)
'The Ultimatum Queer Love' star Tiff Der (Netflix)

Why was Mildred Bustillo arrested?

In the Reunion episode, Mildred confessed that she got arrested after moving in with Tiff. And it seems it was no other than Tiff who called the police. She said, "I threw a picture frame, and I broke it and the glass shattered everywhere." She further accepted, "And, I threw a pet gate at you, and it was really heavy. At the same time, I was grabbing all of your clothes from the closet and throwing them down the stairs." Mildred did this because she wanted Tiff to leave her house. Tiff asked, "You did throw the dog gate? Police statement says you took it back.' Mildred threw some things at Tiff and in return, Tiff called the police. Mildred claimed, "They (police)took my engagement ring off and I never put it back on." Mildred confesses that she is not proud of what she did but she accepts having a lot of fights with Tiff.

'The Ultimatum Queer Love' stars Mildred Bustillo (Netflix)
'The Ultimatum Queer Love' stars Mildred Woody (Netflix)

Tiff Der walks out of the Reunion filming, accusing Mildred of 'gaslighting'

Mildred put all the blame on Tiff for not putting effort into their relationship. She accused Tiff of calling her a "trash mom" and "screaming, yelling, punching a wall," and not having a connection with her son. Tiff accepted having a problem connecting with Mildred's son. Moreover, Mildred later accused Tiff of bringing women to her house. Mildred also called Tiff out for taking "financial advantage" of her. She said, "I'm judging you for having me take care of some bills and having my things in the home that we created while you're out there, you know, sleeping around." She then claimed that once she came home at three in the morning and saw an eyeliner she claimed not to be hers. Indeed, it was someone else's. Mildred added, "I don't know who was there in my house. And there was just all these, like, sex board games." 

Listening to all the claims, Tiff lashed out and accused Mildred of gaslighting her. She said, "You're literally just f**king— straight-up fu**king gaslighting me." Tiff then walked out in the middle of the filming and could be heard sobbing while leaving the set.

'The Ultimatum: Queer Love' is available to stream on Netflix.

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