'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' Season 7: Bilal and Shaeeda sit with fertility doctor, fans question why he's not tested

'90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' Season 7: Bilal and Shaeeda sit with fertility doctor, fans question why he's not tested
Bilal and Shaeeda in '90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?' Season 7 episode 7 (TLC)

KANSAS, MISSOURI: On '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?', Bilal and Shaeeda continue their disagreement about having children. Fans are convinced he is in no way ready to be a father again, and doing everything he can, to not make it happen for Shaeeda.

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Shaeeda sat down with Bilal on Sunday's episode to make a pro and con list regarding having a kid. While they've debated having children — Shaeeda is ready, while Bilal wants to take his time — they weren't holding back during their conversation. Bilal takes Shaeeda for driving lessons, so she may learn to drive on the right side of the road. She removes her shoes, alleging "heavy feet" that cause her to pound the throttle pedal too hard at times.

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Bilal admitted in a confessional that he had an ulterior reason for the driving lesson, "Shae and I are still trying to get to an agreement about when to start to get pregnant. Later on today, the results are coming from a fertility test. Shae, she's pretty anxious about what it means for her, so I thought right now would be a great opportunity to kind of take her mind off of that." Unfortunately, the session grew acrimonious when Bilal issued directions from the passenger seat prompted Shaeeda to snap "don't shade my country," to which he responded, "don't mess up my car."

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Shaeeda admitted in her confessional that she was apprehensive while waiting for the bloodwork results — and driving didn't help. Shaeeda reiterated their main problem as they prepared to see their doctor, "I am 100% ready to have children." She paused after mentioning her husband's name, and as he turned his entire body away, she continued, "This speaks for itself."

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On the phone, the couple's doctor inquired as to where they stood "since they talked last." He had a mixed reaction. "I think we have been trying," Shaeeda said, which surprised Bilal, who muttered, "Trying what — she … we have not been trying."

"When we are intimate, we are using a condom, but there has been a little oopsie here and there, so the possibility of a bun being in the oven could be real," Shaeeda confessed. "I am trying not to give it too much energy so that Bilal doesn't pay attention to it, I'm just keeping it low."

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Bilal isn't on board at all, "We are not trying to have any children right now. At all. Like zero percent." Bilal talked to the doctor about his worries. He informed the doctor, "I think a child always should bring happiness. I also know how she is, at times, she sometimes gets emotional. It gives me a little feeling of like, will you abandon me type of thing ."

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"There's been times where you no longer say I want to be with you and stuff like that," he added. "I meant to be real, that stuff scares me too because I've been divorced before, so I never want to go through that again let alone having a child." In a confessional, Bilal stated that the idea of having children in his present relationship with Shaeeda had crossed his mind. "Kinda makes me back up. It doesn't make me want to run to it, it makes me a little hesitant. I'm hesitant, for sure."

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Shaeeda later stated in the episode, "I know Bilal loves me, but it's never a good feeling to have someone that you love don't really trust you. It makes me so upset to think that he does not trust me enough to stay with him if we have a baby together." They began preparing a pro and con list for parenthood on the advice of their doctor. The advantages included selfless affection, while the cons included increased stress.

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"Babe you get irritated right now if you don't get 10 hours of sleep," Bilal warned Shaeeda, while she argued she could put the baby "on a program, so they would just automatically know when it's bedtime."

Bilal factored in the ultimate cost of education and referred to Shaeeda as a "germaphobe" who may be unwilling to change diapers. "I'm fearful of the fact that sometimes when there are problems that arise, you are quick to want to run for the hills," Bilal stated, while Shaeeda revealed she had uttered harsh things when upset. "Saying the D-word — 'done' or 'divorce' — those are words you should never say," Bilal said. "I'm scared of having children with the thought that you may want to up and leave one day."

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"My fear is that every year will be the same conversation, time will be passing, and there will be no baby," she said. Shaeeda continued, confessing, "He has been hurt before. Women have walked out on him. But I'm not his past. At the same time, I'm not going to live my life without a baby, so whether Bilal and I stay together or not I'm not going to allow anyone to waste my time."

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Frustrated fans now want to know why Bilal is not the getting tested, "Why isn’t the doctor testing Bilal for his fertility status? He looked extremely disappointed when Shaeeda got good news. Made me so angry. He has Never shown grace or love towards her #90DayFianceHEA #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Another fan wrote how Bilal will do anything to not make the baby happen, "Bilal will make up any excuse to not have this baby. He acts like a damsel in distress. It’s sickening #90dayfiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA #HappilyEverAfter." Looking at his confession regarding his previous relationships, fans drew their own conclusions too, "- DUMPED -PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS (PLURAL) WELL BILAL..... who's the denominator here? We know who the problem is. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA." Fans are also convinced Bilal is doing his best to make Shaeeda unhappy, "The only thing that Bilal is hesitant to do is, anything that makes Shaeeda happy. #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHEA #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter."

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Fans wonder the need for their pro/cons list given how no baby would be a dealbreaker for Shaeeda, "Why are Bilal and Shaeeda doing a baby pro/con list NOW?! He’s known this is a dealbreaker for her from the beginning and wasting her time for years!! #90DayFianceHEA #90DayFiance #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Listening to Bilal's reasoning, another fan tweeted, "Bilal telling Shaeeda that now he doesn't want to have a baby because he is "afraid she will leave" is a masterclass in manipulation and gaslighting... #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFiance." Fans convinced that Bilal has had his vasectomy wants it to come to light, "How come they only testing Shaeeda ovaries & not Bilal’s sperm?? I’m ready for his vasectomy to be exposed #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter." Calling their marriage 'a farce' another fan wrote, "Shaeeda and Bilal’s marriage is a farce!! They went into this with completely different prospects and he’s the only one that knows this. #90DayFianceHappilyEverAfter #90DayFianceHEA #90DayFiance."

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'90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?' Season 7 airs on TLC and Discovery+ on Sunday nights at 8 pm ET.

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