'Friends': Why Joey Tribbiani and Phoebe Buffay's potential romance was shelved in the hit sitcom

NBC's blockbuster comedy sitcom featured Lisa Kudrow as Phoebe Buffay and Matt LeBlanc as Joey Tribbiani
Though there was never romantic tension between Joey Tribbiani and Phoebe Buffay, let's talk about why the two didn't end up as a couple in 'Friends' (@nbc)
Though there was never romantic tension between Joey Tribbiani and Phoebe Buffay, let's talk about why the two didn't end up as a couple in 'Friends' (@nbc)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: Enthusiasts of the smash sitcom 'Friends' will concur that if Phoebe Buffay (Lisa Kudrow) and Joey Tribbiani (Matt LeBlanc) had ended up together, they would have made an endearing yet chaotic couple.

However, in Season 9, Phoebe was shown getting married to Mike Hannigan (Paul Rudd), while our handsome man ended up being by himself.

Given the obvious chemistry and steadfast dedication between Phoebe and Joey, the question still stands: why was their possible relationship put on hold?

So, let's explore the factor that stopped Joey and Phoebe from becoming the endgame in the show.

Group dynamics prompted to maintain friendship between Joey Tribbiani and Phoebe Buffay

Lisa Kudrow and Matt LeBlanc in a still from 'Friends' (@nbc)
Lisa Kudrow and Matt LeBlanc in a still from 'Friends' (@nbc)

The show's creator, David Crane, reportedly told Mail Online that the writers didn't want Joey and Phoebe to end up together because "it would have been too tidy and too complete."

Furthermore, the group's dynamic of the show was one of its main advantages, as every character contributed something unique, and their interactions produced a harmony that was essential to the storyline of the show.  It's possible that the romantic pairing of Joey and Phoebe upsets this equilibrium.

Their uniqueness fit in well with the group, but a romantic connection may have drastically changed the dynamic and perhaps even diminished their appeal as charming oddballs.

Joey Tribbiani's womanizing ways significantly hampered any potential romance with Phoebe Buffay 

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Courteney Cox, Jennifer Aniston, and Matt LeBlanc in a still from 'Friends' (@nbc)

Joey's character often explored romantic relationships outside of the core group, including his significant relationship with Rachel Green (Jennifer Aniston) in the later seasons.

Additionally, Joey exhibits immaturity in her attitude towards relationships throughout a large portion of the series. He often shies away from significant commitments and places more value on physical appeal than emotional ties.

In contrast, Phoebe looks for depth and permanence in her relationships, as seen by her ultimate union with Mike.

The love story of Phoebe Buffey and Mike Hannigan was all things perfect

Lisa Kudrow, Matt LeBlanc, and Paul Rudd in a still from 'Friends' (@nbc)
Lisa Kudrow, Matt LeBlanc, and Paul Rudd in a still from 'Friends' (@nbc)

Even though a lot of fans wanted Joey and Phoebe to be together, her romance arc was satisfactorily concluded by her relationship with Mike.

Mike's calm but witty demeanour suited Phoebe's eccentricity. Their marriage was genuine and emotional because of the careful and thoughtful development of their connection.

The growth of Phoebe and Mike's friendship may have been hampered by the introduction of a Joey-Phoebe romance late in the show.

Even though Joey and Phoebe didn't wind up dating, their relationship is still one of the best part of the show. They demonstrated that connection and affection are possible even outside of romantic partnerships.

How to stream 'Friends'?

Production still of 'FRIENDS' (Warner Bros. Studios)
A still from 'Friends' (@warnerbrosstudios)

You need to have an exclusive membership with Netflix to watch the show.

The Standard Plan with advertising has a monthly membership fee of $6.99 and provides full HD (1080p) streaming.

You may use one account on two screens simultaneously and watch in 1080p/full HD quality with the $15.49/month Standard Plan, which is ad-free.

Fans can also watch the show in 4K Ultra HD with Dolby Atmos and HDR by subscribing to the $22.99/month Premium Plan.

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